WARNING! This blog is pretty much just so i can vent about something and just get it out there somewhere because certain people I would talk to about it are currently unavailable...


So my girlfriend and I have been pretty serious as some people know, and have planned to move in with each other as soon as she turns 18. However there was a snag in that plan and now she is going to wait until after she graduates high school, which I can understand, its some bullshit with the school systems with her enrollment. BUT NOW, her dad has to go and fuck things up even MORE! aftrer talking to her for a long time about after she graduates and everything she tells me tonight she doesnt want to because her dad (who is a fucking dick to her and treats her like his personal servant by the way) asked her not to so she said she wouldnt. Also, she tells me her grandpa said the same thing. I just dont understand why she doesn't understand ITS HER FUCKING LIFE!!! NOT THEIRS!!! When she is out of that house they cannot tell her how to live her life or wat do do... and her dad keeps trying to control her as much as humanly possible but anytime i try to say anything about any of it she gets all pissed off so I've pretty much given up with even bringing it up... its just not worth it to talk to her about it. Just after everything her and I have been through after all the problems her father caused us and after everything he did to her, it just pisses me off that she still will do what he asked.. andI know it sounds a bit selfish but i dont care how strong he feels about it... just because he didnt do something when he was younger does not mean he knows what will happen in her life... i just know its going to be at least 4 to 5 years before we get married and I honestly dont want to wait that long just to live with her... its fucking bullshit